April 21, 2010

Help For Choosing The Rings For Your Marriage

For most of recorded history, betrothal and marriage have been represented by the wearing of rings. The earliest ones were not precious metal but were usually made of iron. Some betrothal rings were not even of that quality, being made instead of woven grass. Fortunately, engagements were usually quite brief, so they lasted until the marriage, when they were usually replaced with a metal one. Eventually, silver and gold became more commonly used, and the use of gemstones then followed. However, diamonds were almost never included, since they were scarce and extremely expensive, reserved mainly for royalty. Major diamond deposits were found during the 1800s, which increased the supply and lowered the cost, although both were tightly controlled by the mine operators.

The expense and scarcity of diamonds is often reflected in antique engagement rings. Amethysts, rubies, and sapphires were more commonly used. The metal settings, however, could be extremely ornate, and many fine examples of filigree can be found. By definition, an antique only needs to be more than five decades old, but they can also be five centuries old. Therefore, you will find a great range of styles and gems used in antique rings and there is not a simple definition for one.

For modern brides, the diamond’s cut usually has much to do with her selection. There are several traditional cuts, and almost all of them are flat on top. The round cut is very popular for a solitaire. The facets along the sides let it catch and reflect light so that even a small stone sparkles well. For princess cut engagement rings, the diamond is cut into a square shape and normally set with the prongs securing it covering each corner. This cut is also used as a solitaire frequently, although it can also be set into the metal of the band.

If the rings do not match, the mountings can scratch or catch on each other. You can avoid this by checking the rings together for fit or by purchasing them as a set. Designers make sure they will fit well, and also offer such designs as interlocking rings.

At some point in your marriage, you might choose to replace your wedding band, engagement ring, or both with an eternity ring. These are bands with diamonds or other gems set flush in the metal. The gems often circle the entire band, although there are also styles that only have stones on half of the band. Diamonds are commonly used, but they are sometimes alternated with other gems, such as the birthstones of the children. These rings are often purchased to mark a milestone in the marriage, which may be a silver anniversary or any other special occasion. If the styles are compatible, all three rings can be worn together.

Proper fit is essential when purchasing a ring, especially one you plan to wear constantly for many years. A metal band can be sized to make sure it will be comfortable. This service is typically included in the purchase price of the ring, but is not expensive if you have heirloom rings you wish to wear. Rings that have gems set all around the band, such as an eternity style, can usually not be sized. Stones would have to be removed for sizing, which can negatively impact the looks of the ring.

When selecting an engagement ring, consider how you plan on wearing it. An elaborate or large ring can be a nuisance over the course of your day. Constant removal can make it easier to forget or lose. These are best reserved for wear on special occasions. If you plan to wear both rings around the clock, you might prefer a smaller setting or stone.

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